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Betrayal

What is betrayal??? Betrayal (or backstabbing ) is the breaking or violation of a presumptive contract , trust , or confidence that produces moral and psychological conflict within a relationship amongst individuals, between organizations or between individuals and organizations - According to Google Dictionary In my prospective, I agree with the definition. Recent events in my inner circle has made me think twice about this particular word. I my self have been a victim in my past. It is something I can relate to very well. This incident is a PnC issue that I choose to not to share due to its sensitivity, but the victim's pain is something I dare to share since it is a common feeling for a lot people out there. To trust your self is not a easy matter. To trust another, its even harder. As time goes by it becomes obsolete (trust). Sure there is a bit of doubt here and there but and the end of the day the trust stands as a testimonial of the relationship. About 80% of the relatio

where does it begin???

Human emotions are complicated, which makes us humans also complicated. Where does all this come from??? The complication. Personal insecurity??? Past trauma??? Maturity??? Does it make us any different??? any better or worse??? Love has always taken center stage in our lives. When do we truly fall in love and how will we know for sure who is the right one??? Most of the time people don't have a choice, they just settle for what they can get at that moment. The fear of loneliness maybe the reason or the excitement of taking a chance. What ever the reason maybe, they just settle for what they have. Is that the right thing to do??? Come on people, your whole life is going to revolve around this choice you make. Should such a decision be made upon fear of something or excitement that some one or something brings you for that moment. If you have a choice then your lucky, but there is also the chance of making the wrong choice. It is always the "what if" that screws with all o